Ok, question for the experts, more like advice, how are you accessing data on your server with your mobile device, for me, it's an Iphone. I've been looking at some apps, cloud storage, but I really don't want to use the cloud, So there's an iphone app called Filebrowser which will let me access my files like SMB shares, which is half of my goal, I would also like to be able to upload my photos, when I'm out and about, and delete from the phone to save space (or if I lose the phone) and skydrive seems to work for that, found another app called Tonido Desktop which may do both, haven't installed it yet. If the the app worked for streaming , thatwould be great but not necesary, so instead of reinventing the wheel, figured I see what you all may be doing.
http://www.tonido.com/tonidodesktop/
http://www.stratospherix.com/